Wednesday, November 18, 2015

Adoption Day celebrated

Our annual Adoption Day event took place at Santa Maria Juvenile Court. Seven children were adopted from foster care into permanent homes, and the families were celebrated with lunch, family portraits, and gifts and activities for kids. The event was previewed in Edhat and then covered by the Santa Maria Times/Lompoc Record, KEYT/KCOY, KSBY,and Santa Barbara News-Press.

Preview before the event, on Edhat:
https://www.edhat.com/site/tidbit.cfm?nid=161544

Coverage of the event in Santa Maria Times and Lompoc Record:
http://santamariatimes.com/news/local/foster-children-join-their-new-families-on-adoption-day/article_8dfa2a4a-f40d-5fd3-90ed-458b7bc548ad.html
http://lompocrecord.com/news/local/foster-children-join-their-new-families-on-adoption-day/article_e338b21f-de73-526e-a7dc-b216d474ea21.html

Coverage of the event on KEYT 3 (KCOY/KKFX) TV:
http://www.keyt.com/news/local-kids-honored-on-adoption-day/36528848

Coverage of the event on KSBY 6 (Central Coast 5) TV:
http://www.ksby.com/story/30552593/local-foster-children-adopted-in-santa-maria-as-part-of-adoption-day

Coverage of the event in Santa Barbara News-Press:
http://www.newspress.com/Top/Article/article.jsp?Section=LOCAL&ID=567376188608217116
Full text of News-Press article after the jump.


Forming new families

National Adoption Day observed in Santa Barbara County

By EMILY LESLIE NEWS-PRESS CORRESPONDENT
November 19, 2015 12:00 AM

A Santa Maria woman can now call her grandchildren her own after adopting them Wednesday during Santa Barbara County's annual Adoption Day.

"They're mine," said Kathy Mendoza as she stood in front of the Santa Maria Juvenile Court, where the adoption was finalized. "They get to stay with our family. They get to be together."

Her three grandchildren, Layla, 6, Mikey, 3, and Carly, 2, were taken into foster care in June 2014 and placed in different homes. "That was really heartbreaking," Ms. Mendoza said, noting that she was constantly worried about the children when they were in foster care.

Working full time at 53 years of age, Ms. Mendoza is now a single mother of the three small children. "It's been the hardest thing I've ever done in my life," she said of becoming a mother again. Although the process of becoming a parent is a challenge, Ms. Mendoza is excited to watch her grandchildren grow and share life's experiences with them. 

"Life's a challenge and being a parent in of itself is a challenge, but it's also such a blessing and I'm so grateful for where we're at," she said. "I'm thankful that they are with me and that they get to be with their family and that I get to see them grow. I get to be the one to teach them, be the one to scold them, be the one to see them achieve their goals ... I want to be there for every aspect," she said.

Seven local foster children, including Ms. Mendoza's children, found permanent homes when Judge Arthur Garcia granted their adoptions Wednesday.

While adoptions take place throughout the year, National Adoption Day is a more festive occasion that allows families across the county to celebrate with one another.

It is important for children to develop attachments with a parental figure, noted Gustavo Prado, a business specialist for the Santa Barbara County Department of Social Services. "That's what these people are doing," Mr. Prado said of the adoptive parents. "They are stepping up and saying, 'I want to be that person that this child calls when (they) need something.' That they want to see them through their adulthood."

There are up to 450 local children and youth in foster care in Santa Barbara County. Last year, 90 kids were adopted. Right now, at least 100 foster children in the county are awaiting a permanent family.

As a resource family recruiter for the county who has three adopted children of her own, Anastasia Stone noted there is a local need for foster and adoptive parents. "Both my husband and I always knew we wanted to adopt," she said. "Once we knew that there was a need locally, there was no way to ignore a local need."

Mr. Prado encourages the community to get involved, whether it's becoming a foster parent, a mentor to foster children, or simply having one of the children over for dinner. "We have older kids who need a place to go for Thanksgiving dinner," Mr. Prado pointed out.

For more information on foster care or adoption, call the Department of Social Services at 866-899-2649, or visit AdoptSBC.com.

email: eleslie@newspress.com